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How To Set Boundaries In A Toxic Relationship
By Shanice J. Douglas-Samuels
Facing The Doom Around Us
The world can be a frustrating place to navigate on a daily basis. For many of us, the frustration is heightened by the draining effects that you may experience after a long day. It might be the case that as soon as you open your eyes in the morning, you immediately have a feeling of doom. Are you worried about the inevitable reality of who and what you will have to encounter just to get through your day? What does peace mean for you, and how is it being threatened?
Whether it is home, school, or work, we have to encounter people who carry with them a variety of “vibes”. Saying vibes here is simplifying a bit, but bear with me. I think you’ll get what I’m talking about soon.
These people (or things) that we have to interact with, one way or another, are basically the conduits of their own unique set of vibes. These vibes are like little tendrils that snake towards you, crawling on your skin, tightening its grip on you, leaving you feeling defenseless. Sometimes, this manifests itself in feeling significant to overwhelm that is powered by anger, anxiety, sadness, or a combination of all of the above.
A bit dramatic? Maybe.
